Nov 6 2008

Emergency Protest & Rally – ALL OUT!

No More Hate! Overturn Prop. 8!
Equality for All! Same Sex Marriage Rights Now!

This Saturday, November 8, 6pm
Gather at Sunset Junction in Silver Lake
Corner of Sunset Blvd. and Santa Monica Blvd, Los Angeles 90029

More information here.


Nov 5 2008

now the time has come

I try to separate politics from the person but it can be difficult at times. Right now is one of those times. If you voted Yes on Prop. 8, I feel sad for you. And I’m angry with you. You’ve hurt me personally. You’ve hurt my dearest friends in the world. You’ve devastated so many families across this state. Did you really think before you cast this ballot what your vote would actually do?

I’m sick with heartache about Prop 8. I’m filled with rage that a campaign full of lies, discrimination, and hatred actually resonated with half the voters in this state. I often can see the other side in an issue or debate, but not on this. I will NEVER understand or accept how anyone can be against two consenting adults going to a courthouse and getting married just like Remi and I did. I will NEVER accept that it’s okay to treat people as second class citizens because they were born with a different sexual orientation as me.

This is NOT over. Not all votes have been counted and only 400,000 votes separate the two sides. But it’s looking grim. Regardless, this fight is NOT over.

I love this state… I’m a proud Californian, proud Angeleno. But today, I’m so disappointed with 5 million of you. Do we really care more about chickens in this state then our LGBT brothers and sisters!?! CHICKENS?!?

To keep my blood from boiling over, now I’m going to go rewatch Obama’s acceptance speech. Peace.


Nov 5 2008

long day

snuggly

Still awake. Tears indeed shed when it was announced that Barack Obama is going to be the 44th President of the United States of America. Just typing that … wow.

But heart sinking seeing the returns come in regarding Prop 8. Looking at county results, I must say I’m very disappointed in you Los Angeles! WTF!?!

Glad this day is over. Sleep, dreams, chance to sink beneath the covers and rest. Tomorrow is a new day. No matter the future challenges or disappointments, today was historic, powerful, and inspiring.


Nov 4 2008

VOTE

our sign

I stood in line for 2 hours this morning with hundreds of others to vote in this historic election.

I’m anxious, nervous, excited, tired. Regardless of the outcome tonight, tears will be shed. And I’ll greet tomorrow full of hope or have more reasons to move to Canada someday.


Sep 29 2008

still breathing. or trying to.

If you have a 401K, today is not the day to see how it’s doing. Those who haven’t seen the news, the stock market suffered a nearly 778-point drop making this the worst single-day point loss ever. And it’s not just the US stock market that has suffered but others around the world.

I’m young, so I know I have time on my side. But I feel sick over the millions of retired people who are watching their life savings disappear and not knowing how they will survive next month and the many months after.

If you’re not sure what you can do to start feeling more financially stable in these unsettling times, check out www.fitchratings.com. You can look up your bank’s ratings and outlook (go to Financial Institutions > Banks > Issuer List). They spelled out WaMu’s failure well in advance. And the FDIC has information about what happens when a bank fails for those interested (WaMu actually officially failed before it was bought – 29 have failed this year).

On a totally lighter and unrelated note, it really sucks when the Monk theme song gets stuck in your head! Damn you Randy Newman!


Sep 5 2008

stick it

I’ve been in a surprisingly good mood since waking up after Wednesday – which was a stress filled doozy and simply awful day. I was letting a lot of things get to me that I knew I shouldn’t. Even though there’s a lot that’s not going so great right now, I’m trying to not let things wear me down anymore than they already have. And so far, it’s really working.

One thing out of many currently making me smile:

After Palin speech, Obama has record $10 million day

(CNN) – Barack Obama’s campaign for president has raised $10 million since Republican vice-presidential candidate Sarah Palin spoke Wednesday night, the campaign announced, calling it a “one-day record.”

Palin, the governor of Alaska, launched harsh attacks on Obama, accusing him of being two-faced and a political lightweight with no significant legislative accomplishments.

“Coverage of the Palin attacks on the news this evening just pushed us over $10 million,” Obama spokeswoman Jen Psaki said in an e-mail to reporters Wednesday night.

The Republican Party announced earlier in the day it had raised $1 million in the wake of Palin’s speech.

I think it did more than make me smile when I first read the report – I think I giggled.


Sep 2 2008

cheese and rice

I spent most of this labor day weekend peeved, annoyed, and angry all because John McCain picked Sarah Palin as his running mate. I’ve tried not to think about it. But it really fucking pisses me off. Plus combine that with anxiety over Hurricane Gustav and some real life problems that are stressing me out so much I feel like I’m not breathing properly. Sigh…

McCain’s VP choice proves that he’s lost his mind completely. He is no longer the man he was 8 years ago. It’s sad to see that desperation. You don’t pick a running mate after only meeting them “2 times” and not properly vetting them.

Sarah Palin is quickly becoming a total disaster. I wonder if McCain can change his mind? Has that ever happened before?

There are so many reasons why I personally find Palin a horrible running mate. It’s only the tip of the iceberg to say that I find this choice offensive, insulting, and really bizarre.

Mudflats is an excellent blog from an Alaskan covering the Palin debacle. Read it and find out why this whole thing is so ridiculous.

Thank god yesterday Remi and I were able to just walk on the beach after running some errands. Yes, it was super crowded. Sure, we had to walk by the thousands of crosses set up in the sand right by Santa Monica Pier as part of an Iraq war protest which just depressed me. But it was beautiful. Little kids digging in the sand or jumping into waves. So many families enjoying a day together at the beach. We needed that time to just not think. Revel in the cool water and sand on our toes. Soak in the sounds of waves crashing and the refreshing breeze off the ocean. Reminding me of my grandmother, who played on that same beach as a little girl. Reminding me of my roots and bringing me a little peace before heading back to reality.


May 15 2008

all good things

Historic day for California… for human rights everywhere. There’s still a battle ahead but for now, time to rejoice!

California’s top court overturns gay marriage ban
By LISA LEFF, Associated Press Writer 44 minutes ago

SAN FRANCISCO – In a monumental victory for the gay rights movement, the California Supreme Court overturned a voter-approved ban on gay marriage Thursday in a ruling that would allow same-sex couples in the nation’s biggest state to tie the knot.

Domestic partnerships are not a good enough substitute for marriage, the justices ruled 4-3 in striking down the ban.

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